Actually, once you are past the ego wank, all the dudes (bar one or two) are all really good people.
Deal with the hazing ritual as you get from any new site, and meet a few new people.
Whats the difference between being a member there, and going to their parties, than being a member here, and going to dance parties?
Egotistical? Maybe, but at least they arent snobby like the responses to this thread seem to have been.
'Im too cool for that shit'