Strip joints

My boyfriend went on a stag night to a strip joint on the weekend and came back rather embarassed. He said it was one of the shittest nights out he\'s ever had. The men there looked seriously dodgy. Some of them were trying to stick their fingers up inside the stripers\' and these women didn\'t even care. The women weren\'t too flash to look at and one wouldn\'t let one of my boyfriends mates go because \"they were having a really good conversation about common sense.\"

I doubt she had any.

What\'s the attraction?

That\'s gross.

There\'s nothing wrong with strippers provided it\'s kinda classy, that is just yuck.

Yeah I know, but I don\'t think Auckland has any classy ones. Would I be correct?

the attraction, well i\'m not quite sure but i don\'t think it\'s anything to worry about, cant be jealous or anything......just a guy thing i guess..?

Oh no I\'m not jealous, I would have been in there with him if I could have. I was just rather dissapointed he didn\'t have a good time and that the strip joint was of poor quality.

Only been to one strip club and I got to say as far as they go that Showgirls is reasonabley classy ... and if you even touched a girl there (let alone tried to touch her breasts and lower) you\'d so get kicked out by the fucken big samoan bouncers ... not joking I saw it happen!

Never been to one, never plan to... Be better served staying at home and watching Sky 1.

\"pay 4 porn\" on sky 1!!

Well, I\'ll be honest and say that I and a few other friends that lurk around Biggie sometimes go down to Showgirls for a drink and to talk shit, generally take the piss etc.. But it really isn\'t to do with the girls (honest). On the flipside of the coin, I can see what you mean because there is a lot of girls around those places that have no class and no clue. There is however, a bunch of really nice girls that work around the stripclubs and shouldn\'t really be landed in the same boat as the aforementioned.


I don\'t understand fully, the psychology behind guys that spend a lot of time in the clubs alone and spend a lot, copping feels etc.. I\'ve tried to and the best answer I could think of is maybe it\'s a form of escapism for people with a lot on their minds, or people bound by marraige that figure it ain\'t cheating.. Which I think is true. We just have to remember that there\'s millions of people out there, each with a seperate situation to our own..

Oh, and the reason we go there?

We know most the girls (almost all of them are club hoppers) and it\'s the only place you can drink during the late afternoon that has some form of ambience. And it\'s kind of private. Yeah.

I dont understand why the hell people pay money to watch someone dance half naked. All that happens is you watch them you give them your money and then you go home (alone) and have a wank......you are basically paying to masturbate.

Urm

Tell the truth, it doesn\'t even really turn you on!

I\'ve never got hard in a strip club.

I think a lot of guys just really admire a nude girl!

No shit

well can\'t you find a regular girl and take her home and get to see her naked too and maybe actually get a little more action then you\'d get from a stripper....?

It\'s amazing what males will pay for. Guys are suckers. Go the strippers!

kat - my thoughts exactly!

Yeah, good on them.

I might be able to be persuaded to go to showgirls to see the laser show as I\'ve heard its pretty good. Thats about the only reason I\'d go and I haven\'t found it persuasive enough yet.

My mates getting married in a month and the only thing that will be being paraded at his stag do will most likely be some new vinyl. Hell, we\'ll do our own laser show!

Been to a strip joint once about a year and a half ago with 2 mates. Had a great night chatting to the girls who worked there, they have some funny stories to tell. Couldnt find anything to get excited about. Dont really see the attraction myself of going along to sit and stare.

Thats what he told you
but is it really how it happened

The strip club that i work at has very stricked guidelines about who can touch what etc.........

It is very classy and we (the performers) are not cheap.

p.s. I am a Profesional Dancer, NOT a striper.

You talking to me Siege? I\'m totally comfortable with my partner\'s actions. I know him well enough to imagine him sitting there looking bored as fuck. I wouldn\'t care if he was right up there getting a titty rub either. I\'d find it quite funny. Totally out of character though. I\'d definitely be paying him out about it for weeks. So yes, I know that is how it really happened.

-Dr.J-
Urm

Tell the truth, it doesn\\\'t even really turn you on!

I\\\'ve never got hard in a strip club.

maybe showboys is more your style?

Yeah I saw you working some of those pole dancing moves at the WBC after Dancin in the street Cartman... You need a bit of work on your booty grind tho.

its all in tha hips Jono my boy.
if anyone wants, i can do parties for a resonable price.

I agree with phunkydave the light show is suppose to be awsome best in the suthern hemispere would go just to see that, probably get a good laugh out of it, i flatted with 2 strippers in Sydney they were alot of fun so i say if its got class then good on em hope they do well

It\'s funny the amount of girls I went to shool with who I keeping hearing about now working at Showgirls, mind you foor the money they earn I can\'t blame em at all.

Itchy - \"ive only ever been to showgirls\" i know for a fact you\'ve been to mermaids too....

Strippers are just gross and whoever said it above is right - desperate guys, wouldnt you rather just put the effort into picking up a chick in a club or whatever rather than going and paying to watch some dirty stranger dance around in a room full of guys and get nothing else out of it.

I agree with you Kat - can\'t quite see the attraction

twinkle - that statement -strippers are just gross- has to be one of the most narrow minded views i have ever heard from someone. The women who choose to do this are there to perform for an audience, not there to fuck every guy in the room. I have only been to a strip club once and didnt find it my cup of tea but for the people out there who do find it entertaining good on them.

If i was offered between 1 and 2G a night to take my clothes off up on a stage infront of a room full of people there is no way in hell i would turn it down. Damn good money !

Shot Ex

Cheers Dr.J.

I cant stand narrow minded people who just blurt out shit like that ! Sounds like they are preaching from the bible or something (no offense to the religious intended).

It\'s true, i know a few strippers and some are what you say. Others its just a job.

Ps: Exodus didnt ur ex get asked to be a stripper.

well i was just saying what ive seen from knowing people who work in the industry and there is a lot of really gross stuff that goes on in the strip clubs. fair enough if they just want to dance and make money and the girls arent there to fuck every guy in the audience but i have heard first hand a lot of stuff that happens. And yes it does gross me out that people get naked and suck up to old men to make money.

But obviously most people think - if they can get that kind of money then whats the harm? which is fair enough but im allowed my narrow minded view too.

im a prude wen it comes to n e thing pornographic. pawn is fine but not porn

\"Eww, nude people, eww sex, eww, how icky and gross and what a seedy harem of grossness\"

Get over it

oh thanx for that dr j, ur such a charmer i was simply stating that it wasnt my thing. i dont see the big hype in it. i dont understand why ppl are fascinated by other ppl being naked. and why the fuck should u have to pay for it either??? that\'s seedy if u ask me

twinkle - there is alot of even grosser stuff that goes on in normal clubs with drunken fools who havent got a clue as to whats going on.

Big Ups Dr J !

Renaissancer - Seedy is a back allied, poorly light club where u pay $2 on the door and get to stick your hands through a hole in the wall where a naked old woman waits for you to fondle her. Im sure if you where to visit an institution such as the white house you would think again.

no no im fine living may happy ignorant life away from porn. i just cant see how watching a complete stranger dance with minimal clothes can be a turn on. my ex used to start doing it all the time. i\'d just laugh at him and tell him to stop being a diddle. id find it funny if i knew the person, but just icky if i didnt

Im talking about more the private dances the strippers have than just where they\'re dancing on stage and i find sucking up to people and pretending to like them etc bad at the best of times - let alone when you\'re naked and doing it to an old man so you can make money out of him. more fool the old man i suppose.

Yeah as i have said its not my cup of tea but each to their own. I think alot of the people who do go arent their to be turned on, just a different form of entertainment for them.

twinkle - is that much different from a girl flirting with a guy in a club so he will buy her drinks just so he can get her phone number, same principle...

absolutely no different (apart from the nakedness) so how about all girls who flirt with guys to buy them drinks are gross?

I get the point though. my view was narrow minded and judgemental!! there you go.

Thankyou !

*big hug*

NOW TAKE IT OFF

*pushes his luck and gets ready to avoid slap-hand*

My step-sister strips down in Wellington....or she may be up here at the moment, she was helping out with the opening of \'The White House\' for her boss...anyways, she decided she wanted new tits....$6500 or whatever says the doc...presto, 3 week later she paid for her new tits.

_That- is what taking your clothes off for money is all about.

never been to one and not intrested in it

im not gay i love checking out the chics but there is a time and a place for stuff like that it\'s called the bedroom or tv :-p

kris_b - damn good money ! so easy 2 !

Go the strippers, I want to see what the attraction is. Do they let girls into Showgirls?

Yip.. girls get into Showies for free, hence why i want to be a chick for a week ;P hehe

Do many girls actually go?

yeah but most of them work there hehe

but i dont really go that much, but when i have there\'s normally a couple of chicks with their b/f

if you want ill take you one nite.. hehe its free for everyone if you go before 5.30pm

Ive heard Showgirls is OK, wouldnt know myself of course....ahem

have you been there before Sam?

Men have been admiring nude women for centuries, it is a biological thing. Cave men painted nudes, artists for years have been painting nude women, photography came along and nude women have been photoed many a time, movies followed and the porn industry grew with nude women in movies. Advertisers use semi nude women to promote all sorts of products. The fact is many men like to look at beautiful women and a strip club is a place to do it. Men can watch (often) beautiful women moving and dancing around. Strip clubs for many are a legitimate form of entertainment and relaxation. The few times I have been to one in Nz it was not seedy at all and most entertaining. The clubs in Kings Cross scared the shit out of me though and were seedy, sleezy and totally dodgy and scary so it depends what the punters are looking for.

I guess I am babbling on about the nude female form is like a fine oil painting which many men like to enjoy.

I've been to some in Kings Cross too.

Really seedy. Totally dodgy as you said.

Even the Burger King is dodgy over there. Big warning signs everywhere in the Burger King toilets about needles etc etc.

The first strip club i ever went to was Showgirls. At the time i was shocked that the girls actually took all their clothes off. I know that sounds really naive but i had only ever seen it on tv and stuff where they keep their g string on!

Kat, if you wanna come down next wenesday afternoon and join some of the Biggie-ites for a few quiets, you're more than welcome. And yes, girls do go in there - And there's now Showboys in there on a Wednesday night.

Just contact me

Wednesday during the day? Nah, leave it to the weekend. Me thinks.

Flynny, dont give me that "ahem" stuff. Where were u at 5pm yesterday evening???
Need I say any more?

Can only wish the wellington clubs let chicks in for free - am getting tired of paying the $15 to get into a place - as far as i am concerned the only places worth paying to get into are raves!
that said, some strip clubs are seedy, and some are not... just the same as any other kind of place.
it ust depends on ppl not taking it all too seriously...

nothing against them, just dont think i would wanna go to 1... Wouldnt feel right getting a 'i had to pay for it' boner hehe

Ill stick to the imagination, mines great.

went to mermaids once, passionatley kissed one of the strippers and now my picture is on the wall, havnt been back

my mate paid $125 for a full body massage at mermaids, he says it was the best thing thats happend in his short life