cyber_princess said:
kris_b said:
Except you're a slave to the money. You don't wanna buy fancy new gadgets? That's fine. But you're still spending those savings all the same, be it a ski trip or a pile of walls and roof. You can't hate on "consumerism" on one hand, while espousing the joy of spending on the other.
I don't hate on consumerism, I like spending money on things that I want. I don't deprive myself of things.. a lot of things that are out there to spend money on, I don't see the merits in spending money on, like daily coffees, McDonalds when you've got food at home in the pantry, iPhones when you've already got a phone, a new car when you've already got a car that runs perfectly fine. Qtraro was asking about how to save, so I was telling her how my world is. I was meaning "slave" as in stuck having to work all the time because you're living paycheque to paycheque.
I should say that came across a bit more negative than I meant it to. I have much respect for people who are good with money, since I'm so fuckin terrible with it
When you have money, you can get new things, even though your existing item is perfectly fine,
because you can. That's how I see it anyway. You can afford it, so why not enjoy it. (Within reason obviously)
Edit: And obviously you do enjoy it, you've got your goals and shit, so yeah, but there's also nothing wrong with treating yourself too.