Looking scary

Since NYE, I\'ve been making an effort to look
more scary.
Wellington had it\'s beer goggles on that night.
As I walked back from the railway station, having
dipatched a friend back to the wilds of
Paraparaumu, almost every male I passed took
it upon himself to pass comment on the state of
my breasts and/or buttocks.
Now, I realise I\'m not hideous. That\'s fine by me,
I like looking the way I do - but by the same
token, I can\'t help the way I look.
I was heading home at about 6.30, when I
discovered, to my delight, an open cafe! I went in
and sat down alone with my latte... only to be
relentlessly hit on by a bouncer from a bar I\'d
been to earlier that night (my friend blew chunks
in the doorway of said bar)... and it was
absolutely relentless. At first I was glad of the
company... however, after I\'d mentioned several
times that I have a boyfriend, and that he was at
the Gathering, the bouncer geezer was still
insisting \"It\'d be fun. You\'re a very sexy girl. You
have lovely breasts\"
I wanted to yell to all and sundry \"YES. I have
TITS. I\'m SORRY but I CAN\"T HELP IT! GET THE
FUCK OUT OF MY FACE!!\"
Being the ladylike thing I am, I refrained.... but
since NYE, I\'ve been wearing my dog collar
more often, and making an effort to look a bit
freaky, in an effort to discourage shit like the
above.
Sometimes it\'s like - I have a high IQ, I have
thoughts, ideas, opinions, talents.... but none of
that matters shit, cause I\'m all tits and arse.
It\'s nice to be appreciated.... but I find it really
intrusive to have strangers pass comment on
my body.
Fortunately, my boy likes me looking a little
scary..... but I tend to cop abuse from the same
type of strangers who whistle and yell if I look
more feminine......

That\'s my rant. It\'s not very well worded, but I
think I\'m done....

- e -

well said. guys are just hopeless.

well my suggestion is next time just say what you wanted to say....\"YOU SUCK! GET THE HELL AWAY FROM ME!\" hehe, gets the message across

You\'ll find that people that get shit, have a \'victim\' energy about them. It\'s nothing to do with what you\'re wearing, predators can sense it.

\"LOOK LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE STOP FUCKING STALKING ME... YOUR A LOUSY FUCK AND YOUR DICK IS TOO SMALL TO PLEASURE ANYONE!\"

If that doesn\'t make em leave you alone nothing will.

i get comments etc quite often too, but purplelollie i\'m guessing was probably more pissed at having that then gettin someone that just wont piss off/?? well thats how i would be, you say no and they keep trying....duh! get a clue....

For instance, it\'d take a masocistic man to give shit to Crazy. And she\'s pretty good looking. (I\'m not hitting on her)..

Just be a little more assertive.

And hey, nice tits! (Joke..)

I get comments a bit, whenever i find myself walking around down at the waterfront near leftfield etc.

I\'ve found that if you say anything back they love it, they know there comment has got to you then, and you\'re just playing straight into thier hands.

I find that just ignoring them is the best bet.
Plus a lot of pissed guys can get violent, so if you fuck them off to much you might be in for a little trouble. Who knows what these low-life scum will do.

Dr J - i luf you! hehe, always a compliment for me, yay! what a mate....hell i\'m hot...who is\'nt hehe jk/s
yeah well normally i don\'t take shit, not from people who are\'nt my mates anyway.....

Thanks Dr. J....
I don\'t usually react, but it really pissed me off
that night.... but then I don\'t usually put myself in
amongst the general drinking rabble like that. It
might be culture shock more than anything
else...

thepurplulollie - the best thing to do is just to ignore them and keep on doing what you are doing. Only react when it is a last resort and then you can choose from this list of 2/3 magic words that work a treat...

Fuck Off
Im Gay
I Have Crabs
You Like Knives?
Im A Guy

Do what I do: wear wraparound sunglasses, affect a slight frown and don\'t smile too much.


A simple \"Fuck off dickless/loser/moron/bitch\" (delivered loudly, matter-of-factly, no emotion) works wonders. Best idea is just to ignore them though. Men in NZ have pretty fragile egos and if you come at them with a smart comeback, they\'re likely to clock you one (well they will if you\'re a boy).

Nasty Transtemporal! I tell ya, he looks mean as, I wouldnt wanna fu*k with em.

Tell the truth, it goes for same sex ragging as well. I used to get paid out a bit in my younger days, and it affected me a bit, and I was sort of \'afraid\' of getting hassled which reflected in my energy - And attracted more shit. And I took it.

Thesedays, I don\'t get given much shit really, and if any it\'s from friends joking. And if anyone gave me shit in the street and really got a rise out of me, I\'d most probably crack them. And people can sense this. People should give more credit to the \'sixth sense\' of sensing other\'s energies or the aura about them.

Schyeah.

/crockofshit 0

I\'ve asked people whether they like knives.... it
always goes down a treat!
Specially if I\'m with someone who knows what
I\'m up to and can join in...

\"D\'you like knives?\"
Yeah. Yeah, I like knives.\"
\"I like to hurt people\"

Altho the raised eyebrow and the \"you\'re scum\"
glare seem to work well during the day too....

And thats without my once-were-warriors \"FUCKEN UNCLE BULLY!!!\" thing!

Only problem is, its hard to be a bad-ass-ghetto-pimp when you live in Ponsonby. I\'m working on that.

\"Count your lucky stars buster! I\'d kick your ass if this latte wasn\'t so damn good!\"