Ever just cant be bothered?

With females/males, whatevers your buzz. You may be still keen in theory, hey, maybe even keen on someone in particular, but you just cannot be arsed with the whole thing. Anyone get like that?
By the way: Not looking for sympathy or anything, I didnt say that was me, can’t be bothered posting under another name... This is a discussion topic, not a "Aw poor Smiley" look-at-me type thing.
Y'know?

u have just summed up my 20s smiley, i just seem to be too busy having fun, no one i have met could fit into my lifestyle.

I swear I am having the best time of my life being off my pickle and feeling the music ...do ya know what I mean? ...of course you do

...........Kushti...... i knew u wouldn't let me down.......i knew it.

Smiley, I know fully.

And then the fact that you can't be arsed casts a wierd edge on your relationship.. Then it gets wierd

Yep. Fully understand...

Wierd

That word is wierd too


Wierd wierd wierd


WIERD


Say it with me

Hmmm

Dr.J is WEIRD

I don't get like that much but I can see it happening if I was to get particularly caught up in something that would take my mind off it.
It happens during exams and busy times at uni.

Spell it with me...

WEIRD

WEIRD

WIRED

I'm not talking about having too much fun for relationships, I'm just talking about being apathetic for no particular reason... Er, your just sick of bothering and worrying about such things, even though you kind of would like to.

thats our answer machine message..the human traffic thing not the weird

i wanna add my view to this thread, but i dont understand. Fuck im dumb...

what does Apathetic mean? You use to bigger words Smiley

DIdn't your teacher tell you?

I before E except after C

Or should it be 5HTP before E except after JB?

haha drugie DrJ

haha, its raining

haha you are Jass

Yeah it is too.....


back to topic.
Um, I've never really experienced what you describe, Smiley. Perhaps I'm too young?

Nah you're just too much of a punk, FPunk

I'm pretty aphathetic towards the oppisite sex. It just really not a issue. I been like this for quite some time, I don't know why don't really care.

Pfunk on the other can't get enough of the laydeez, he's even spading 12 year old now, or so i hear.

but me i'm just criusing along, when i go up to chat with a girl that's all it is, a chat.



I've even be known to turn girls down 'cause i really can't be fucked with all that

I was hoping someone would explain apathetic to Jass better than I could.
It means not lifting a finger to help your situtaion, not caring enough or some shit like that... I think. I use the word alot but to define it... Hmmm.

I am like that now, I am having way toooo much fun with all my beautiful friends, and just can not be bothered with having to be concerned for someone elses feelings, and the fighting, oh the fighting, just can not be bothered... MAYBE I AM LAZY??

I like being able to do exactly what you want with whom you please, and not have to take on any one elses dramas (have enough of my own), and when I need special quality time (which is the niceness of a relationship) I just call up one of my few bestest friends for a cuddle or a movie or a walk ... YAY! LOVE ALL MY SPECIAL FRIENDS IN LOLLY'S LITTLE CIRCLE (mooooaaaahhh - a kiss from me to you)

BUT in saying so, it is exactly the right moment when you are totally against relationships etc that you have one thrown at you (or so there has been a direct pattern in the past)

xx

Yeah, I'm sorta in the same boat as Neil. I like the thrill of the chase but can't be arsed going through the politics really. I'm waiting for a girl to just fall in my lap so to speak, pun intended. Just don't seem to have the drive some guys do to get out there and find ladies. Which is wierd, cos I still like spading and kissing, the usual yadda. I'm a complete paradox.

hehe, i just wanted you to explain it to me

I know how it is. Friends always ask me you got a girl yet. Its always the same, i havent really looked...

When i go out, i normally have the desire to *hook up* az people might say. But once your pilling that desire goes out the door, and you just give everyone hugz, damn love drugs...

But i always seem to pick the ones you cant get anyway, so blah...

I think I just need a girl to remind me what it is I want. But then, it won't happen cos I'm not looking and I'm asking for too much. The catch 22.

"I'm pretty aphathetic towards the oppisite sex. It just really not a issue. I been like this for quite some time, I don't know why don't really care. "

Its the drugs, buddy, you're all the same!

I just really can not be bothered at the moment with the whole "Hi my name is Laura and I am @ Uni and blah blah balh,..."

I just wish someone turned up at my door and said "Lolly, I know all about you and lets just go out and have fun"

That way, you do not have to go through all the bullshit of getting to know one another and can just go out and have fun and PLAY together

... yay! for familiarilites

xx

Aahh, but its fun getting to know someone. Its nice just fall down that path, and not realise...
But... meh.
: )

I havn't had a girl friend for like 5 years, and all the chicks I "hook up" with, they have made the first move.... It's not drugs...


and NO, I'm Not GAY

No, I hate the whole initiation stage of a new relationship, I like to be cumfy with them and be able to sit around in my trackies and watch vids or have spots, or do something nice and cumfy

you can not do that in the beginnings as the whole 1st impression thing

xx

Can't be fucked with the whole first impression thing.

Er, theres a bad play on words in there somewhere...

congrats Lolly

you havnt *sighed* this whole thread

I know, I'm vary happy today...

I'M SCHEEMING

xx

oh and Lolly.....
nah forget it , i just cant be bothered

Hey Lolly

Bend over


Heh, what a chauvenist.

** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh ** ** sigh **

if you are fighting in a relationship its not worth it thats my personal opinion

Ha ha you guys crack me up........... we are all such a sad bunch of biggies.........sigh, sigh...

my thread.
Sigh.

YAY! EVERYONE IS SIGHING - JOHNYG AND SMILEY, U GUYS ROCK!!!

xx

** sigh ** <----because im a sheep

Lowlyfe - what can't u be bothered about? HUH?

And Dr J, you know that I can't bend over for you, ...

you have enought Biggies already!!! xx

Lolly:

*sigh*

we should all go to BEd tonight and sit there and ** Sigh ** inbetween running around madly and dancin and talking codshit to strangers and going to the starmart for sour skittles and balloons and giving cuddles (did i leave anything off my list?)

xx

I'm going to bed tonight now... Damn, I better get some sleep before hand.

exodus is a fantastic alternative to relationships !! =)