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This might have been done recently, my memory is not so flash.

Yeah, but many single guys round these days?

My ex flatmate and her mate are both cute, smart, outgoing girls ... but can't get a decent boyfriend ... and I can't work out why. I guess the ex flatmate gets a few drinks into her when she's out so maybe isn't viewed as girlfriend material?

Where do people meet randoms they want to date these days when they're out and about? Golden Dawn? Lime Bar?
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Not at a bar.
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Itchy said:
I guess the ex flatmate gets a few drinks into her when she's out so maybe isn't viewed as girlfriend material?


Yes.. I would never date a girl that drinks alcohol...

bahahaha
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But would you be interested in one who was noticably boozed? Or just see them as a potential hook up?
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There is a man drought in Melbourne.

MAN DROUGHT.
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Itchy said:
My ex flatmate and her mate are both cute, smart, outgoing girls ... but can't get a decent boyfriend ...


It's cause girls tend to be attracted to assholes who shockingly turn out to be assholes Razz
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Yeah. You and your friends perception of "decent guys" is hereby called into question
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I'm not single... that seems to support itchy's hypothesis.
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You're not much of a guy either though,

soooo......
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I think neils just using his new whizzbang doctors hat to lampoon Itchys generalization skills Very Happy
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What is a 'decent' guy? I'm single and consistently see women as clients who somehow get into a relationship with guys who are absolute dropkicks, physically and psychologically abusive control freaks. There are heaps of decent guys out there though, nz girls seem to just sometimes go for dropkicks. I think that at the moment, some men in nz may be unsure of their actual 'worth' or 'value' to some women, when a minority seem to ruin it for them, and women are ultimately confused about what they want - even if they do have a 20 point check list which they use to filter potential dates (via internet dating for example).

Because a minority of men ruin it for other men, some of the decent girls also have impenetrable defences up, and are not so comfortable in themselves to just be themselves and take things as they come.
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There's a shitload of them in London, it's great.
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The Maestro said:
I think neils just using his new whizzbang doctors hat to lampoon Itchys generalization skills Very Happy


Laughing

Yeah, it just seems difficult for them to a find a guy who's nice, not a control feak, can deal with the wider circle of friends, and who has a job ...
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And maybe a bar isn't the best place to be looking for this?
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Well I don't know many guys who go to bars to find a long term relationship so....
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neil_armstrong said:
I'm not single... that seems to support itchy's hypothesis.


Laughing same here.
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spike said:
Well I don't know many guys who go to bars to find a long term relationship so....


define longterm

at my stage of life 5 hours is almost a lifetime
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Longterm = they get to stay the night?
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Very weird that hot, smart girls generally go for unintelligent, rough Maori guys.
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Understandable really. Maori guys are a lot more interesting than any other men in New Zealand.
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I don't know a single hot, smart girl that is currently or has ever gone for an unintelligent, rough maori.
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I think KGB's definition of smart needs a little work.